Monday, 28 September 2015
Thursday, 24 September 2015
ASTRAL PROJECTION article
THE
ASTRAL WORLD
The
Astral by shamanistic descriptions seems to be a dimension as
real as this world, accessible through the mind. Occasionally a shaman
may claim to physically enter the astral dimensions and
then
the danger is very real, that they are unable to come back to this
realm.
Some
of the exponents of a different realm are a surprisingly eclectic
mix:-
Carl
Jung describes himself as being transported into a region of outer
space, phantasmagorial in appearance.
Carlos
Castaneda wrote several books about his journeys to a realm
which he names as ‘the crack between the worlds’.
William
Blake visited Heavenly Realms.
Inevitably
the Shaman will eventually travel to the next Realm or the
Astral world..
.
This
is a specialist subject, above and beyond normal Shaman skill.
To travel the Astral requires knowledge’s of meditative and magical
aspects which are complicated by the inner capabilities
already
present in any Shaman.
For
this reason, Astral Travel forms a part of the Meditation Course and
is an invaluable aid to the safety and security of the Soul aswell
as the Physical self.
Because
of the true and very real dangers one can encounter, as this
course was being created, I took the decision to add to this article the instructions to follow the Meditation Course.
There
is a vast array of skills to meditation and its many advantages
to the human psychic. The Meditation Course is worth studying
for its own benefits. I have included here the safety rules
and the astral links to be noted though we wish to emphasise that
the actual Meditation course is vaster than the small amount of
information included here...
Happy Astral travels.
Keep
a journal for your meditations and a separate journal for your observations
on all other related subjects. You may need to refer to
information and your journal will definitely make interesting
reading
later in life.
Silver
PSYCHIC SELF DEFENCE WORKSHOP
PSYCHIC
SELF DEFENCE
PROTECTION.
In
an ideal world mental protection starts with the physical self and its
needs being met first. However that isn't always feasible.
The
human mind is a fine instrument which receives enormous amounts
of information all the time. In ideal conditions we can ensure
the body is as comfortable and safe as possible. At the point
when you feel content begin the first steps of Psychic Self Defence...
As
human beings we are subjected to an amazing amount of information
second by second. Our ears are hearing back ground noise
as well as the conversation before us and the chatterbox at the
desk over the room, the sound of the fax machine and the fact that
it is a sunny day outside and a plane just flew in the direction of
Sunshine and beaches and we could go on forever. What is also happening
is a sensory overload which may be attacking your more
delicate personal abilities.
Feelings
of being ‘watched’ where you can almost physically feel someone’s
eyes on your neck.
Feeling
suddenly drained of all energy when you are physically absolutely
healthy.
Fear
or self doubt suddenly striking your emotions.
Being
swamped by the drama of someone else’s life.
Feeling
too emotional, always weepy or angry or swept by rage which
comes from absolutely nowhere.
All
these emotions are seen as an attack of the psychic self.
Defending
yourself is something you practice whenever you shut yourself
off from the world and stay in doors with the curtains shut, watching
mind boring TV shows and not answering the telephone!
Why
did you do that to yourself? Because it is easier than dealing with
the exterior world when you feel so very sensitive. Defending yourself
enables you to go out into the world with a lot more
confidence.
Psychic
self defence is a Metaphysical exercise and requires total focus
and concentration.
USING
YOUR IMAGINATION
Take
a really good look at yourself in the mirror. This is your true
self;
this is the real person you will be defending mentally. So don’t
cheat
in your imagination and pretend your stomach is flatter than
it
is, don’t add a few inches onto your body. You’re looking at
yourself
and memorising the truth.
.
Psychologists would call the following differing names, or conditionings, mental excercises. I grew up with them all being acknowledged as ways of defending the Psyche and defending the minds perceptions whether real or imaginary from vulnerability and fears which can manifest themselves in poor health, stresses and damaged sleep patterns and in some ways psychologically causing fear to function normally in life.
PRAYER
Beginning your work with a prayer is perfectly acceptable if you are of a religious persuasion, ensure your prayer contains the request to be protected from all levels of negativity above and below the
earth, from all directions of the universe, within and without of the self.
1
Whenever
you are with people who make you feel unnerved, whose
energies are making you feel uncomfortable you can create a
force field between you and ‘them’. However, you are at present
alone
and unable to determine if this procedure is working. What you
can do is create the imagery and then practise it next time you are
out in the public world.
Imagine
yourself with a shimmering shield before you, wherever you
walk or stand this ‘shield’ is with you, make it as thick as you like
and it can be made of ‘glass’, a ‘force’ as in the Science Fiction
films
invisible beams, whatever is for you an image of strength and either
repelling or ‘zapping’ the negativity which you feel is too invasive.
This
is a defence used when someone makes you feel drained or mentally
brow beaten. Place the ‘shield between you and them….it works!
2
Now
sit or lie down and begin;
See
yourself in your minds eye. Imagine surrounding yourself with pure
white light. Now silver the surface of the white light until it is mirror
bright.
This
basic defence mechanism is a protection from negative energy
outside of you, it repels it.
If someone
where to ‘send’ a negative force at you, it would be bounced
straight back to them without infiltrating your defence.
BREATHING
TECHNIQUES
See
yourself in your minds eye and as you physically begin to breathe
in white light.
Breathe
out whatever colour is inside yourself, keep your breathing to
your own rate, do not force your breathe or attempt counting techniques.
Keep
this technique going until you are ‘full up’ with bright white light
and you are breathing out white light as well as inhaling white light.
See your image glowing with light, perceive the light in your breathe.
Now
continue this procedure but add the imagery that the light breathed
in is now exuding through your skin.
This continues until you
are both filled with light and your skin is positively glowing with
light
in, on and outside of it.
You
can comfortably stop the breathing technique, all the imagery is
now focussed on maintaining the whole image of yourself positively
glowing with filled light exuding From your body in a ‘body
wrap’
of light.
Once
you are comfortable with the imagery, close your eyes; ‘think’
to your mind the instructions. ‘You wish to maintain this image
during any psychic work you are about to do.’
Let
the eyes open as you allow the image to fade to the back of your
mind.
This
type of defence is using a forceful image of you being protected
from exterior negativity and enables you to banish personally
invented negative forces. It is also used to repel negative forces from exterior force or person.
USING
THE TOOLS OF THE TRADE.
If
you are a religious person then you can always employ the use of a
symbol as an extra protection for the mind. Some of the symbols
are The Cross, The Ankh, The five pointed, six pointed and
eight pointed Star and numerous others. The name of your deity
inscribed on a suitable medallion. A rosary and many other symbols
are used throughout the world. You
use whatever symbol has the greatest protection you have been
taught and believe in.
These
methods of protection are more than adequate for use when practising
the developmental skills of psychic development.
Visualisation
and Meditation.
As
with the previous meditations you need to prepare and settle yourself.
In the preparation we would like you to choose an image to
look at. A photograph of a flower or a candle, something simple
and
preferably single coloured.
Once
you have begun to feel relaxed you need to concentrate on the
specific image which you chose earlier
.
Try
to ‘see’ in your minds eye the flower or candle as you saw it in the
photograph.
Concentrate
not only on the image but try to sense the feel of the object,
the scent the heat or other sensory information your mind can
supply above and beyond the photograph
This
visualisation is very simple but the effects can be startling.
You
may see the flowers petals open or smell its perfume.
The
candle may begin to burn and flicker and melt.
This
visualisation is the beginning for you of other meditations which
you will enjoy over the coming years.
Visualisation
is a creative method of relaxing and focussing the mind
on something pleasurable, relaxing and enlightening as the imagery
will evolve and involve other senses as you progress.
You
may also begin to sense thoughts which may or may not be related
to the image.
They
will certainly be for you, about you or your plans. Keep good records
of all of this.
Other
images may begin to appear without your studying them, in fact
more images and other sensations will develop over a period of
time. Once you are comfortable with this level of meditation you may
feel ready to progress further.
In Psychic Self Defence, once this stage of meditation has been reached one creates SANCTUARY and it is also possible to create a Door Sentinel, a completed energy is to visualise yourself safely inside your sanctuary then allowing the imagery to fade, coming 'back' to reality and simply keeping the feeling of being inside your sanctuary 'topped up' with little moments throughout times in the day or night where you strengthen that thought, that visualisation and perhaps enhance it with a prayer to your deity.
There is more, there always is, this is an introduction to psychic self defence. Good for the majority of issues we deal with on a daily basis which make the psychic self uncomfortable.
Be safe, be happy
Regarding this issue I am happy to answer specific details if you feel you are not .'quite' getting the hang of it, or perhaps have a deeper situation to deal with. Please feel free to e mail me at the provided address.
Silver
AN INTRODUCTION TO HEALING by FRANCES REILLY 1985
AN INTRODUCTION TO HEALING.
A Memorial Paper by Frances Reilly.
1985.
There are many forms of healing and I
will endeavour to enlighten you.
Firstly we have many hospitals, which
include Surgeons, Physicians, Dieticians, Physiotherapists, and Nurses to name
but a few. Specialists in every ailment mankind can suffer from.
Secondly we have Alternative
medicine, of which there is also a long list. Currently the top 8 Alternative
medicines in the western world are -:
Top 8 alternative therapies,
1,Naturopathy where the body is
encouraged to heal itself through healthy exercise, correct diet and fresh air.
2, Ayurvedic a strict diet to suit
your ‘prakuti’ which is your physiological and physiological system, herbal
medicines, yoga and other complimentary medicines and practitioners.
3, Traditional Chinese medicine.
Herbalism, massage, diet therapy, exercise and acupuncture are just some of the
range of medicines used holistically.
4, Homeopathy a prescription for
minute amounts of a remedy that will closely match your ailment, there is an
extremely detailed series of questions concerning everything from lifestyle to
ailments.
5,Manual lymph drainage a highly
effective system where a relaxing massage pinpoints the lymph glands, boosting
the immune system eliminating toxins .6,Autogenic Training this has been dubbed
a meditation for westerners, the system is taught over a number of weeks.
7, Reiki a Japanese form of ‘healing’
which can aid stress management especially.
8, Aromatherapy where essential oils
are used to encourage a better immune system, where essential oils are used in
massage.
Spiritual healing is in a category of
its own.
It is Spiritual Healing I am
interested in here, in this paper.
I firmly believe that if ones
spiritual body is healed, the spiritual body helps the physical body to accept
Gods will and in acceptance we can overcome the problems.
There are various ways of Spiritual
Healing.
Contact Healing.
Aura Healing.
Magnetic Healing.
Colour healing.
Absent Healing.
In this first paper I wish to deal
with the healing I use myself.
I sit quietly for a few minutes, to
meditate. Offer a prayer and ask for Gods love and light and protection, and
that he let my Healing Guides be with me throughout the duration of the task I
have to do. I give my love to God and in return I can feel myself fill with his
love THEN I KNOW. I am ready to begin.
If I haven’t had contact with the
person before, I ask if they have experienced Spiritual Healing. If not then I
explain it to them, what I am going to do. This puts them at there ease.
I always stand behind the person to
start off with, placing my hands on their shoulders.
I extend my thumbs to the base of
their neck and concentrate on the person. This helps me to ‘tune in’.
Throughout the healing I keep my hands
within the ‘aura’ of the person, usually within two inches of their skin. I
keep my left hand mainly just behind the neck (negative) whilst my right hand
(positive) moves around and over the body. Everyone finds his or her own ‘best
way’ of doing it. This is MY way, the way that I feel the most effective.
All healers feel different
sensations, some feel cold, heat, and hands vibrating and so on. With me I feel
intense heat where the healing is needed. I can also feel the power ‘bounce’
through the body from my right hand into my left hand. I always leave the
person by placing my hands on their shoulders again and asking God to let the
healing carry on. I feel that this completes the circuit around the body.
When the healing is over I feel as if
I am a Disciple, carrying on the work of Jesus.
To me, healing is the most precious
gift God could ever give me. I accept, I appreciate it and shall always do it
to the best of my ability.
You are all capable of healing others
in your own way.
May Gods Love, Light and Protection
be with you always?
Sadly Frances has passed to the other
side. All who met her, where appreciative of her simple and direct belief,
which was strong and sincere? She is sadly missed on this physical plane.
Spiritually, she is one of those golden lights that shine whenever the way
seems too dark.
Frances Reilly, an indomitable woman, surviving many physical and spiritual challenges. To become a leading
light in the Page Moss area of Liverpool, Great Britain. Frances was a
vivacious and talented lady whose sense of humour could overcome much of the
cruelties of life. For a tiny little lady, with a whole series of painful,
physical ailments and a body punished cruelly throughout her life. This
beautiful soul shone amongst friends and the public alike.
Her greatest joy was to receive a
bouquet of Yellow Roses from Sammy Davies Junior whenever he visited the North
of England. Her greatest pride was in her son Christopher the only surviving
child from ten painful pregnancies.
Her most powerful memory is with ‘us’
the people she left behind, all too soon. Frances was tiny physically and had a
heart the size of the world. She would do anything for you, be there as friend
and as support.
She had so little materially having
been burned out of her home by local vandals twice, and as she said the second
time ‘ the Bronx would be easier to live in than here’. Yet she stayed and made
it known she would not be beaten, would not ‘give in’, to bullies and idiots.
She had so little fiscally because
she spent her meagre income on the ‘old folk’ whom she cooked meals for and
delivered. (This was when she was in her early sixties!) Frances was a fount of
wisdoms and a particularly wonderful friend to those who had fallen on hard
times. Her humour was ‘off the wall’ her adventures where many…in fact they
probably warrant a book all have there own.
Frances left a legacy. The day after
her burial, her son and I began to sort through her material world. A sad and
unhappy task. The next day I received a phone call. Christopher had eventually
worked his way to the attic. He had found his ex army father’s hidden arsenal!
Semtex, Detonators! Tank and land mines! He was stood outside the house, at the
bottom of the street. The Bomb disposal unit of the Army was on its way. She
really did, nearly go with a bang! I can still hear her laughing. Frances would
have loved it.
And we really did love our own little
Reilly.
We still do.
I promised Frances that one-day, the
world would know of her beautiful soul. This is my testimony to my friend. Her
works may never have reached the dizzy heights of professors and doctors of
this or that. Yet her work is far more powerful than she would accept herself.
Though no academic, I watched this
tiny little lady confound the whole of the medical profession in the Royal
Liverpool Hospital. With Spiritual Healing from ‘us’ and from herself, she came
off life support after a triple bypass operation in 3 days and walked, head
high within three weeks out of the hospital, healed and healthy, the operation
was a success and for eleven extra years we had Frances with us. The
transplants had lasted longer than anyone else’s, her recovery was greater than
anyone else’s and to her delight, her
surgeon was fascinated by the process and asked permission to talk of her
Spiritual Healing at a seminar that very weekend of her operation.
Frances didn't just write about her
abilities and interests, she truly lived them and as a result she was a shining
example to us all. Personally I can never thank the powers that be enough, for
my friend, my councillor and mentor in life. I witnessed her levitate and write
her initial on the ceiling, crystal gaze and heal, she dumbfounded me and a
whole lot of other people.
She humbled me with her truths and
her trust and her loyalty. I never did feel I repaid them enough. I have been
most truly blessed when the powers allowed her into my life and I am very
grateful, very grateful indeed.
Frances was a wonderful hotch potch of humour,
passion and so many attributes, a true bouquet of British quirkiness, Scouse
humour and pure undiluted womanhood. Wherever you are Fran’, I miss you girl.
Love
Mother.
SANCTUARY
SANCTUARY
Sanctuary has become synonymous with being able to
leap up a church steps into the chancery and stay safe from the local police,
army or anyone else who wanted to have your guts for garters.
In earlier times sanctuary was a place of deep peace,
meditation and prayer.
These days sanctuary is a programme on the telly and
people have in general lost the true meaning and do not understand the need for
total safety from the 'demons' of the mind.
SANCTUARY for
the purpose of meditation is something you create to give your spirit somewhere
were nothing, no-one, no 'it' can harm you in anyway whatsoever.
Before you
travel in any direction through meditation, before you trog down any path way
or any guided meditation with a complete stranger or for that matter a friend,
you should visit your sanctuary.
Sanctuary
leads to your place of worship which leads to your meditation site which leads
to your gateway which leads to your created pathways. NOTHING comes through
sanctuary except YOU.
You follow this wherever you are working with any type
of person, no matter who they are or how qualified until such time as you are
strong enough to stand on your own two feet and run a development circle of
your own.
DO NOT MEDITATE THE FOLLOWING IN THE BEGINING, IT IS
CREATIVE VISULISATION.
CREATING
SANCTUARY.
Visualise a white walled room, develop the room always
with white, ceiling, floor, and then fill the room itself with white soft
light.
Create (this is when you get to play at being a minor
deity !) a large comfortable solid looking door that has enough locks, bolts,
bars to satisfy your desire for security and place it in one of the walls.
Across the room, opposite your entry door is a small
discreet exit, which leads out to your place of worship.
Create in the centre of this white room a tranquil
pool, it can have a fountain, underwater lights, whatever, it should also have
somewhere for you to sit comfortably. The pool can be as big or as small as you
wish and your room...well make the time to make the room as perfect as you want
it and then as big as you like. Personally my room is so big that the walls are
out of sight, there is a dim soft mist which fades the edges. THIS IS WHERE YOU
SEEK CALM, PEACE, AND TRANQUILITY.
The ideal place for you to balance yourself, cleanse
yourself and then walk quietly to your exit door and enter your place of
worship to seek blessings, sanctifying.
NO - ONE CAN GET INTO THIS ROOM IT IS YOURS AND YOURS
ALONE.
CREATING
YOUR PLACE OF WORSHIP.
Well you can have a church a field a stone a waterfall
a pond, a sea whatever. Where do you want to worship and to whom!
Its the same process as before and you keep that
'picture' in your head, work on it with as much intensity and creative energy
as you would if your where planning how you would spend that big lottery win!
CREATING
YOUR PATHWAYS
To
the right
On the right-hand side of the centre of your worship,
be it an alter, stone bunch of flowers a tree...whatever, is the way OUT.
NOT THE LEFT HAND SIDE, NOT BEHIND IT...see the work
on Kaos for reasons why but if you see a 'K' at the side of something in any
future work it is a signal to you that Kaos can be involved, a danger or a
threat and though the reasons are not written here I assure you they are in the
other works for cross reference and you can read all about it later.
The 'K' signal means STAY SAFE.
Through that wonderful RIGHT HAND gate is the world
you can investigate. It is EXACTLY the same world as everyone else’s with the
added bonus that you have:-
Metaphorically and metaphysically speaking-
Put your hat on
Got your coat
A spare pare pf wellies
A pair of sunglasses
A sun suit and a towel
Sun cream
Snow boots
A spare flask of spiritual energy,
A whole lot of curiosity and!!!!!!
YOU GET THE IDEA
From this point of self cleansing, self energising,
self sealing you have trained yourself to walk the right hand path which in
mystic terms or magical terms is walking a path of light.
This means you don't have to worry overmuch about
nasty stuff, be aware
But not paranoid.
By the way, when you walk through that wonderful right
hand gate into the metaphorical, mystical, magical world....you can go anyway
you want, up down, sideways, left or right, in a circle, back to
front...BECAUSE YOU ARE IN SAFE WORLD.
Unless
you’re seeking to go somewhere you know you shouldn't! At which point.
“Oh
behave yourself, I have better things to do than go look for an inquisitive
idiot on the astral ‘ cos they got into trouble , grow up and come back when
your knowledgeable enough to bat swords with me!”
I DID mention personal discipline? Ahhh!
Yes, I did ALSO mention you are the pupil here? Hmmmmmmmmm. DON’T go
wandering off into places you don’t belong, this is for your own good…. (Oh I
BET that was annoying”)
Once you have all this memorised and clear then
MEDITATE it into being.
TO
REACH SANCTUAARY
- Know
you need to be there. RECOGNITION
- Step
right through that big beautiful safe door because only you can!
REALISATION
- Purify
yourself, sanctify yourself, and Seal yourself. (go sit by the pool and
clear your thoughts/go to your place of worship and speak with your
God/receive your gods blessing)
v RECOGNITION
v REALISATION
v PURIFY
v SANCTIFY
v SEAL
NOW YOU ARE READY FOR YOUR PATHWORK
sILVER
Wednesday, 23 September 2015
Hi Jacked Halloween
We are soon to enjoy the All Hallows festival beloved of
Pagans the world over. October the 31st is the Feast of The Dead, the All
Hallows, The Soul Night and in the United States of America and many other
countries now following suit...Halloween, a great big party for the kiddies!
Yet if any other religion had to face a hi jack of their
feast day, have it turned into a ridiculing imagery of its followers with green
skin, warts and snaggle teeth, if their feast day was turned into a mockery
there would be, to use a term, Hell to pay.
Samhain is MY festival, not the domain of the advertisers,
the toy makers, the media hyped stupidities but.... you can continue, I will
not argue, carry on...but as you do, please do so understanding the following, it’s
important to me that you at least understand.................
There are NO seminal sources to prove that there is/has been
or ever will be a Prince of Darkness, a Lord of the Dead, a Grim reaper or a Satan.
Not one single 'god' is ascribed the time of Samhain by the indigenous religion
of our country. Nor has there ever been.
Samhain is a celebration of the end of summer and its
harvest also included a time of reflection to remember lost members of the
family and friends. people who have died; honouring the dead in memory and time
praying for a soul’s peace.
The core of all Pagan concepts is And Harm None. What media
hype, perverted idiots and Fundamentalists do is jump onto a bandwagon of mis
or dis information and because they have more money than most they buy time on
media to spread their version of 'truth'. They either Disneyfy (i.e. Pocahontas
was 13 years old, bald and naked when John Smith became her husband...was that
in the nice cartoon erm...no) or as Lady Wilde did in her false and totally
inaccurate book Mystic Charms and Superstitions claim there is a Lord of the
Dead based on hype and media acclaim and of course her blue blood.
The Dictionary of Festivals defines Samhain as: _
'Samhain or Samhuinn:(Celtic) 31 October, Eve of 1 Nove.is
the beginning of the Celtic year, the beginning of the season of cold, dearth
and darkness.
No other religion suffers as paganism in its many paths
does.
Has any other religion had their sacred festival hi jacked
for media hype, commercialism? Ghosts, Ghouls, Vampires, Witches, and other
rubbish even ET got in on the act....so someone can make a profit. Blood
coloured cakes, black jelly...what's that all about? it has no bearing
whatsoever on my beliefs.
The practise of sending children dressed all cute and sweet
to a complete stranger’s door to demand money and food or sweets is in my
opinion absolutely stupid and worse....it was invented by Christians. NOT Pagan
peoples who are safe in their own homes, loving their families and remembering
someone they have lost whose death has impacted on their lives.
We have, as a religious umbrella term; Paganism. Samhain is
celebrated by Celtic based religions. What others do with our sacred festival
is not in any way anything to do with us. We do not approve, we do not like nor
promote the ideas being 'celebrated' yet we have no governing body, no
priesthood stands between us and our Deity. We have no Lord or Lady, Political
or Army, we do not have Terrorists or Church to represent us in a world that
continues unabated to persecute our peoples.
We often times are unable to represent ourselves simply
because we are and always have been, ever since Christianity was promoted as a
main religion by the invading armies of the Romans, a subjugated and persecuted
people. Millions of people have been murdered in the name of a loving God. Not
because the God asked for it...on the contrary the actual religion I speak of
has text promoting peace, forgiveness, understanding and in its final book
actually has a statement to its followers to stay out of the problems in other
countries and not to bother with other Peoples but leave them to sort out their
own lives and get on with sorting themselves out.
However, these human beings take it upon themselves to
invade other countries, put men and women in the line of fire, demonise other
religions and at the same time cry fearfully that the celebration THEY created
is evilness personified and caused by 'us' a system of belief older, indigenous
to our land, peaceful and loving, with no harm to others promoted at any time
within our concepts.
We don't stand on the steps of other people’s churches,
temples or religious centres demanding our rights. We don't scream 'kill'
because someone has drawn yet another cartoon of a witch with green skin and
warts thus demonising a woman who learns about herbs and believes in a middle
earth.
We are the poor relation, even though we are a religion
stemming from the very core of our countries history, the roots of our ancient
lineage. I object to the Americanisation of my festival, for this is the
country where the hysteria has begun in hard core media hype. Until the
fundamentalists decided to promote lies and mis information, even here, in the
UK.
All Hallows, Halloween was a simple enough festival where as
a child I would see the occasional party for bob apple, duck apple, simple
games which where to remind people that men and women died by being 'ducked' in
water for their beliefs.
Leave my festival alone.
Don't send children to a stranger’s house demanding money.
Don't allow children to make egg and flour bombs to hurl at
houses where they received no 'gift' yet another ancient act being media hyped
for this is based on the old manner of 'stoning' houses or people who dared to
believe in a different fashion.
We all have our own way of remembering the dead. Who has not
on a special day, a birthday or a Memorial Day not held a moments prayer,
perhaps eaten food that day which was the favourite of the lost person? who has
not sat with a picture of that person and cried, then ended with a smile as
they remembered something nice. Who has not read a letter written from that
lost person or watched a video or a camera clip? how many people surrender
their own beliefs in a copy of our Samhain. That we have one special night for
that exact purpose is no one else’s' business.
When 'others' promote a falsity, a lie and then claim it as
a truth...then the perpetrators are in the wrong.
If you want a Night of the Devil...by all means have
one...just not on our night...it’s been ours for thousands of years, so hands
off...go find your own festival to mutilate hang on you already have: -
Thief of Hearts
I want to start my blog with a guide for all those men and women searching internet sites for love, here is a guide to the do and the don't of safe and genuine connections:-
There is a phenomenon known as...The Internet Lover.
Internet sites have sprung up in their dozens providing people with on line ease to connect with a possible romance. There are many reputable sites, many good and professional services but not one of these sites is ever truly able to verify the nature of the applicant. All they can do is process the information given them. Verifying that the applicant is honest, truthful, genuine...is quite frankly a gamble.
There really are people who make a success from Internet dating, they are savvy of the whiles and the scams, but there are also the innocent and naive and the gullible and their hearts are broken, often their bank accounts emptied and their spirits devolve into an ego-less and self worth - 'less' zero rating.
In the last three years I have personally had to deal with hundreds of broken hearts as a result of Internet love.
Only recently one of my friends contacted me, they had met someone over the Internet in a particular dating site. After a short period of time...they met physically. Oh it was love, it was a connection immediately. 'They' seemed to know so much about each other, felt such strength of attraction. He owned a business on the outskirts of Manchester, offered a cut price deal especially for her.....Last seen heading down the road with £1000 of her money in his pocket. Not seen since.
Last month one of my friends was convinced he had found love on the Internet. She was beautiful, gorgeous in fact. She lived on the outskirts of a busy city and had her own little business she was striving against much competition to make successful. She had a big family, was worried about her Mother. Many telephone calls took place then devastatingly he didn't hear from her for a whole weekend. Frantic he called me to ask what he should do, should he ring the local police, such was his worry. When she finally rang him in the early hours of Monday morning, she was in tears...could he lend her some money so she could pay for her Mother to have a serious operation. He sent her over £3000 and hasn't heard from her since. Funnily enough he can't find her business either and the telephone number he had...is no longer active.
I could recite the same storyline in a couple of dozen ways because the man / woman didn't really exist, the photograph was no more than a model posing for a commercial venture. A whole series of men and women, working almost in unison. Each storyline is crafted to suit the comments you have already posted on some website or other.
1)You have been tracked or traced by those comments. reading 'between the lines' they create a sympathy line.
2) If you mentioned how much you love your dad they will at sometime tell you how much they love 'their' dad and then the follow up will be the dad having an illness, a problem that means money is needed, frantic phone calls.
3) Played to within an inch of your oh so easily manipulated kind heart.
4) More locally within your own country/city/town is the same line being played in a slight variation of the theme.
5)I have lost count of the exotic man or woman (exotic by definition not from your own home county or your own home area/town, sometimes even not your country) who suddenly develops a need for train fare, flight ticket or car repair that costs and always for sums within your capability to render up.
Thieves, every last one of them. Plausible, seemingly honest and caring and considerate but they are not. They are cruel, using and conniving individuals who 'get away' with it because once again the victim keeps silent. they are afraid of public humiliation. When the penny finally drops that the have been 'had off' they die a multitude of shame ridden mental deaths and clam up.
Whole businesses run on scamming, from the 'soldier' who needs $40 to pay for a telephone link to the outside world 'you', to the poor soul who had an accident on the way to the airport to fly over to you ad infinitum.
LIARS CHEATS SCAMMERS !
Yet the person taken advantage of is not truly at fault. they have a kind heart, are caring and considerate, loving and giving people who are lonely. Perhaps shy of meeting people straight away the Internet has become a vehicle for them to open up, to be themselves. So we need guidelines for our unsuspecting and gentle loving people, here they are:-
DON'T:let anyone know your home address/home telephone number/home town.
you can be traced by an electoral role, a telephone tracing company.Even these days by uploading a picture from your camera !
DON'T:let anyone know your bank or the gods forbid, your bank details.
DON'T:never reveal any of your passwords even if it is an old password. My friend once told me she used her animals names and she only had two animals !!!!!
DON'T:let people know too much about your personal circumstances, especially vulnerable aspects like your parents or your health matters.
IF SOMEONE LOVES YOU THEY DON'T USE YOU
so if they are asking to come and see you....if they really, truly want to be with you...then they will find a way. They shouldn't be asking you for the flight fare, the train fare the loan of money to pay for anything...they should be saving up!
The permutations of the above scams (because that is what they are) run for hundreds of different themes, ways and means but always the person who is the Scammer is plausible, believable, so 'genuine' you just couldn't accept that this article could possibly be relevant to your particular beloved...so test the point...you have nothing to lose at all:-
IF THEY REALLY DO LOVE YOU....and they have asked for money...tell them your broke!
and if it is true love ? it won't matter at all...and if, after all they are a Scammer...then you won't hear from them again...now will you.
Silver, your friendly little Love Guide
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